Last updated: March 2026
Sonder is a female-owned and led, community-first platform designed for people who have repeatedly found themselves restricted or removed by unclear rules and motives found on traditional social media platforms. Our purpose is simple: to give people a space where their presence is assured, transparency is prioritised, and hidden agendas are never pushed.
Rather than sudden removals, Sonder uses a clear review system that helps members understand expectations and help people to grow within the community. Reporting tools are monitored to ensure they cannot be misused for personal targeting or harassment, keeping the space safer for everyone.
Sonder is a space built for long-term presence, personal autonomy, and genuine connection. Your voice. Your space. Without fear of erasure. Sonder is a social and content platform and is not a booking or client-acquisition platform.
2. Who can use Sonder?
Sonder is open to adults aged 18 and over who want to be part of a respectful, supportive community. If you value positive interaction and genuine connection, this is a space where you're welcome.
Where many platforms have unclear rules, Sonder prioritises transparency. Instead of sudden removals, we use a clear strike and review system so members have the space to learn and improve. We also prevent reporting tools from being misused, protecting people from targeted harassment.
We allow a wide range of expression as long as it complies with laws and our Terms of Service. Content involving minors, exploitation, non-consensual acts, hate speech, or direct harm will never be permitted here.
We do not allow content that advertises, describes, or arranges in-person sexual services or meetings to ensure we meet legal restrictions.
We focus on long-term support through fair moderation, transparent expectations, and tools that help members stay visible and connected, ensuring people have clarity around decisions, confidence in their presence, and meaningful ways to maintain relationships and growth over time.
We actively welcome feedback, ideas, and feature suggestions, and encourage members to share what would help them thrive long-term. If you have a suggestion you can reach us at support@entersonder.com. Your voice helps shape Sonder, just as Sonder aims to support yours.
Sonder does not currently have a standalone app. However, members can save Sonder to their home screen for quick, app-like access. This allows you to open Sonder directly from your phone, just like an app, without needing to download anything from an app store.
You can sign up for a free Sonder profile via https://www.entersonder.com/auth/signup.
Yes. You may use a stage name on your profile.
Accounts may be rejected due to failed verification, prohibited content, or incomplete registration. Contact support for assistance at support@entersonder.com.
Yes, you can make your profile private or restrict visibility to approved followers. This feature is accessible via 'Settings' located on your profile https://www.entersonder.com/profile.
Members can post images, videos, text, and links, as long as content complies with our Terms of Service.
Sonder allows artistic and non-explicit nudity. Content that includes visible genital display or explicit sexual acts is not permitted. All content must be consensual, legal, and comply with applicable laws and Sonder's platform guidelines.
You can control what you see by adjusting your content filters in your account settings. Filters allow you to hide adult content so your feed only shows posts that match your preferences. Your settings can be changed at any time, giving you full control over your experience.
Yes, you can share links to other platforms or external websites, as long as they comply with Sonder's Terms of Service and applicable laws. Links must not lead to illegal, misleading, or prohibited content, and should respect consent, safety, and community standards. This helps keep Sonder a trusted space while still allowing members to connect audiences to their wider online presence.
Yes, Sonder will offer optional promotional tools designed to increase your profile's visibility across the platform. These tools allow your profile to show more prominently in relevant discovery areas, helping you reach a wider audience without requiring permanent placement or ongoing promotion. All promotional features are designed to be flexible and fair, giving users control over when and how they choose to boost their visibility. This feature won't be offered straight away, but will be introduced at a later date.
Promotional tools may be unavailable or restricted for certain users or account categories where reasonably necessary for legal compliance, safety, or platform integrity.
Yes, but AI content must be clearly labelled to ensure transparency.
Absolutely. Your feed is yours to shape. You can turn off AI-generated content in your settings, and you can switch it back on later if you change your mind.
Sonder does not currently offer built-in watermarking tools. If you'd like to watermark your content, you'll need to use third-party apps or software before uploading your posts. Adding a watermark is recommended to help protect your content and maintain clear ownership once it's shared on the platform.
Followers can tap the Tip option on a Sonder member's post or profile where tipping is enabled.
Tips are entirely optional and never required
Payments are processed securely through Sonder's approved payment provider.
How Sonder members can use the tip function:
Members can make posts inviting tips, such as appreciation posts, milestones, or general support messages
Tips cannot be exchanged for explicit sexual acts, illegal services, or real-world meetups
Tips must never be framed as payment for prohibited content or activities.
Users must never pressure others, use coercion, or make misleading promises in connection with tipping.
Tipping on Sonder is designed to support members in a transparent, respectful way while keeping interactions consensual, legal, and aligned with platform guidelines.
New accounts: up to $500 USD
Accounts 2 months or older: up to $1,000 USD
Tipper badges are designed to recognise and acknowledge supporters who actively contribute. These badges help members easily identify engaged supporters and provide visibility into ongoing support within the community.
Badges are assigned based on a supporter's level of contribution over time:
VIP - Exceptional and ongoing support
Gold - High-level support
Silver - Consistent support
Bronze - Entry-level support
Tipper badges are intended to promote transparency and appreciation while helping members better understand their audience.
Sonder currently supports transactions using the following cryptocurrencies:
Bitcoin (BTC)
Ethereum (ETH)
USD Coin (USDC)
Tether (USDT)
TrueUSD (TUSD)
We may introduce additional options over time based on user demand, stability, and regulatory considerations.
Yes. Sonder supports secure payment processing for both debit and credit cards.
Yes. A 15% platform fee applies to cover payment processing, hosting, and ongoing platform support. This fee allows us to continuously invest in platform stability, safety, and new features, ensuring Sonder remains a reliable, secure, and community-first space for everyone.
All payouts on Sonder are issued in cryptocurrency. This approach allows for faster processing and greater privacy compared to traditional banking systems. It also enables members to receive payments globally without delays or restrictions often associated with bank transfers or payment processors.
Payout requests are typically processed within 24 to 48 hours. Once your payout request is approved, the funds will be sent to your designated crypto wallet. There is a minimum payout threshold of $30 USD. Members can request a payout once their available balance reaches or exceeds this amount.
Using cryptocurrency for payouts allows Sonder to process payments faster and more reliably than traditional banking methods, while also supporting members globally without the delays often associated with bank transfers.
Suspensions usually occur due to verification or account issues. Contact support at support@entersonder.com for assistance.
Members are responsible for declaring their Sonder earnings in accordance with the tax laws of their country of residence.
Sonder does not provide tax advice and does not withhold or file taxes on behalf of members. If you're unsure about your obligations, it's recommended to consult a qualified accountant or tax professional.
Posts cannot be edited once published. However, you can delete content at any time directly from your profile using the post management tools.
If you believe your content has been leaked or used without permission, please use the report button on the relevant post or contact our support team immediately at support@ivysociete.com. All reports are reviewed promptly and handled with care. We may request links, screenshots, or ownership proof to investigate quickly.
You can block another member directly from their profile. Visit the user's profile, select Block. Once blocked, the user will no longer be able to view or interact with your content.
Sonder follows a clear three-strike policy, designed to give members the opportunity to understand expectations and adjust before permanent action is taken. If you believe a content removal or account action was made in error, you may submit an appeal for review.
How to appeal: Please email support@entersonder.com with the following information:
your username and login email address
a copy of the notification you received
a brief explanation of why you are requesting a review.
Our team will reassess the decision and contact you with the outcome. If additional information is required, we will reach out during the review process.
If you believe a post or account is violating Sonder's Terms of Service, please use the report function on the relevant post. This ensures the content is reviewed quickly and in the correct context.
Our team will assess the report and take appropriate action where necessary. You may be contacted through the platform if additional information is required.
Sonder's ambassador program is automatically available to all members. Each user is assigned a unique referral link, which can be shared to invite new users to the platform. Referral benefits are applied once a referred user successfully completes their profile.
You can view your referral link and track referral activity through the Ambassador Dashboard at: https://www.entersonder.com/settings/ambassador/dashboard
Your personalised referral link is available via https://www.entersonder.com/settings/ambassador/dashboard. If it feels right, you might add it to your social bios, newsletters, forums or pinned posts so people can easily find it.
Email media@entersonder.com for interviews, media requests, or press materials.
Email support@entersonder.com for assistance with accounts, verification, or technical issues.
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